Do you come from an outlook of abundance or scarcity? An attitude of scarcity is one that will leave you focusing on what went wrong and what you don’t have. An attitude of abundance allows you to focus on the blessings in your life and to be thankful for what you have. Whether in work or at home, a positive attitude can make all the difference.

In March of this year, I moved all the way from Oregon to Georgia without securing a job. I was sure my journey would be a quick one until my next great job! I chose to take this leap because my parents were having some health issues and I had this nagging feeling that I needed to be closer to them. Besides, two of my  sisters already lived here. On the drive across the country, my Mom went into the hospital. I diverted straight to Florida, where she and my Dad were living. I was able to be there, with my Dad and my siblings to set up her home hospice and see her into her next life.

Fast forward to today; my Dad is living with my husband and me, in Georgia. He was staying at one of my sister’s,  but in July,, her son and daughter in law were tragically killed in a car accident, leaving their 3 children behind. My sister will be moving up North  to be with the kids. A few weeks ago, my 15 year old dog passed on. Through all of this I have been trying to secure a job in my field of Operations Management and receiving “no thank you” notes, or nothing at all.

When I start to feel sorry for myself, I remember that I was blessed enough to have almost 3 weeks at my Mothers side, with my Dad and siblings. It was such an amazing journey. She was just short of her 89th Birthday. I also remind myself that I am able to be with my sister during one of the worst times of her life. I am fortunate enough to have a home large enough to accommodate my Dad AND I have a husband supportive enough to make it work out. Lastly, I was able to give my dog the best of the last 5 years of her life (I had adopted her at age 11). Throughout this journey, I have had the support of family and friends, more importantly, I have my faith.  Had I stayed in the beauty and security of my life in Oregon, I would have missed many of the opportunities I was given.

The picture I posted is looking out my front door. After a strong rain, the rainbow showed its splendor and I led my Dad, with his walker, outside to enjoy the beauty of nature. He was tickled; so was I!There are so many blessings tucked away inside struggles and challenges. Yes, even in tragedy, we can be blessed. Let’s journey together and see the beauty through the challenges. If you need encouragement, feel free to reach out.